I am a DIY (Do it yourself) lover and those closest to me know that I am always seeking knowledge, even when I don’t fully know what the knowledge would be ultimately used for. Most times, I sit with my laptop and spend hours doing lots and lots of research. I also always try them out to be sure I am doing it right.

Last week, I stumbled on a sponsored ad on Instagram and I felt I needed the training. Of course, these ads start with the usual free course they give as bait (lead magnet) and when you click and proceed, they dangle another offer like carrot before a rabbit, right at you again. Long story short, I fell for the carrot.

The initial fee was too high for me and I signed off but the very next day, there came an offer of a 30% reduction in price and as an awoof lover, I clicked the link and it took me straight for payment.

At this time, I checked my account balance to know if I can afford it but alas!! If I make the payment, I would be left with only N5000 in my account. But I was the one seeking more knowledge abi? So, I copied the account details and logged into my account to pay.

The moment I typed in the amount to pay, I hesitated for some seconds as I had second thoughts, if I should click submit or not. I looked around my living room for validation from my family members, but no one noticed or knew my dilemma as they were all engrossed in their own wahala.

Anyways I clicked submit, and as the payment was being authenticated, the cursor rolling before my eyes, it was as if I had made a mistake, I frantically tried to end the transaction but behold, the transaction went successfully. I had no choice any more than to forward my payment details so I can be allowed to take the training.

I eventually took the class and halfway into the slides and videos, a tear ran down my cheek. I stared at the computer because I knew everything being taught and even more. I did not gain a single thing from the training. Money and time wasted!!

Who do I blame? The course owner? Of course not, she only saw an opportunity in the market and took advantage of it. I had loads of contents written down from two years ago on the subject to make me an authority, but the feeling of NOT ENOUGH will not allow me to be great.

That is about to change!! This loss of money because that is what it is, has opened my eyes to the fact that all my research has been worth it and even when people gave feedback about the products I churned out, the need for perfection won’t allow me accept that I have indeed done a good job.

I promise to change and believe in myself more henceforth. To give myself a pat on the back for every feat I achieve, be it big or small and to know that I have so much in me to offer the world. I will do it afraid, make mistakes and learn from it. I wont let fear keep me from becoming!! In fact, I am grateful I paid that money, it was the eye opener I truly needed.

What is that one lesson you learnt recently and that you are committed to abide by? Please feel free to share with us.


Thank you for reading and stay safe out there friends.


  1. Lol.
    You had buyer’s remorse which eventually turned out to be a valid reason for not buying.
    Anyway, sorry. Stuffs happens. People are trying to make money out of the lockdown selling orisirisi. I know you will be more discerning moving on. We have learned from your experience too.
    My most annoying purchase is paying my electricity bills. It pains every time I pay as I am on estimated billing

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  2. It only shows how we always feel others are better than us or think we don’t have what they have… You are an embodiment of knowledge please let that sink ore… 🤗🤗

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  3. Sis, your a wonderful person and also has vast knowledge. Some of us are coming under your tutelage so pleass trust yourself more. You can do more than you think…. That 1 thing you should. I have learnt from your mistake o! Make awoof no run my belle🙈


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